Hello and thanks for reading this! 
So I'm really confused about some hybridization. If anyone can point me to a good self-help/self-learn site on it, I'd really appreciate it. I've been looking all over, and it seems to me that a lotof the websites don't provide a thorough enough answer for me to stop wondering, "so why does hybridization occur?"
I think I can understand the jist of it, such as the shapes correlating to the hybridizations.. (like how tetrahedral shaped molecules are sp3, and sp3d2 is octahedral) But now.. what's this whole thing with pi and sigma bonds? I understand that sigma bonds are simply all single bonds, and that double bonds are composed of one sigma and one pi, triple bonds are one sigma and two pi's.
So I guess a specific question I'd like to ask for help is:
If an atom has sp3d2 hybridization in a molecule,
The maximum number of σ bonds that the atom can form is 6
The maximum number of pi bonds that the atom can form is 0?!
I understand that a molecule like SF_6_ can have 6 sigma bonds because they're all single bonds, but why 0 pi bonds?! Why would it be unable to form any double bonds at all?! I mean, that is what's being suggested by 0 pi bonds right?! That makes no sense to me.
Again, I appreciate all time and effort spent reading and replying. Thanks so much!
Yana
So I'm really confused about some hybridization. If anyone can point me to a good self-help/self-learn site on it, I'd really appreciate it. I've been looking all over, and it seems to me that a lotof the websites don't provide a thorough enough answer for me to stop wondering, "so why does hybridization occur?"
I think I can understand the jist of it, such as the shapes correlating to the hybridizations.. (like how tetrahedral shaped molecules are sp3, and sp3d2 is octahedral) But now.. what's this whole thing with pi and sigma bonds? I understand that sigma bonds are simply all single bonds, and that double bonds are composed of one sigma and one pi, triple bonds are one sigma and two pi's.
So I guess a specific question I'd like to ask for help is:
If an atom has sp3d2 hybridization in a molecule,
The maximum number of σ bonds that the atom can form is 6
The maximum number of pi bonds that the atom can form is 0?!
I understand that a molecule like SF_6_ can have 6 sigma bonds because they're all single bonds, but why 0 pi bonds?! Why would it be unable to form any double bonds at all?! I mean, that is what's being suggested by 0 pi bonds right?! That makes no sense to me.
Again, I appreciate all time and effort spent reading and replying. Thanks so much!
Yana